THINGS that I've Learned... (Old Blog)

Things That I’ve Learned From The Past Year.

I’ve read an article quite like this, but I was inspired to write my own. Please take note that I wrote this spontaneously, so forgive me for the errors.

The past year has been an eye-opener and worthy of taking a lot of lessons from. Here are some of the things that stuck to my mind from the past year.

Things that I’ve learned from the past year:

I’ve learned that like what Stonecold always says; don’t trust anybody…Even your closest friends could really stab you on the back. He/She possesses the will to give you a Stonecold Stunner anytime he/she wants.

I’ve learned that some things are worth forgetting and left behind. The ungrateful people and the user-type of friends, they’re all worth erasing in the memories. Someone will come along and OVERWHELM the things that made you feel like a fucking shit.

I’ve learned that Peyton is the best choice between her and Brooke. I’d rather fall for the one who I’ve become close to for quite a long time than for someone who has lots of boys swarming her and entertains them even if she doesn’t even know their true personalities. I’d rather fall for the girl who stands by my side every time I’m feeling down and not for the girl who only talks to me just because she doesn’t have someone to talk to. I’d rather fall for the girl who listens to me than to the girl who denies that she really doesn’t want to talk to me. I’d rather fall for the girl who hasn’t fallen for someone or hasn’t even gone into a relationship than someone who had lots of relationships and has a history of guys leaving her. Peyton is the better choice because she’ll be there whatever happens not like Brooke who becomes an enemy whenever you’ll have problems with her. Hmmmmmmm…Brooke is the bitchy type and Peyton is not. Brooke says “Duh! Whatever!” a lot but Peyton does not. Brooke’s bitch-type of attitude is far more different to Peyton’s respectable personality and approachable image. Peyton is everybody’s friend while Brooke has quite a number of enemies. Who could this Peyton and Brooke be? (Sino pa? E di yung nasa ONE TREE HILL! Nanonood ka ba nun?! Ako oo! Haha!)

I’ve learned that some people are really very INSENSITIVE. (Baw!)

I’ve learned that some people are OVERWHELMING hypocrites. They think of their pride so much that they fail to express their TRUE feelings. Fuck all ya’ll!!!

I’ve learned that some people will enter into relationships in a flash just to forget their problems with another person. Fuck that thought! I’ve known someone who has done this already and it ended up with nothing. She/He had problems with someone that she/he likes (crush na crush!) then she/he went into a relationship with someone who likes her/him even if she/he doesn’t love that person. Fuck that! (Baw!)

I’ve learned that someone will talk you into bullshit and give her/his excuses to refrain from having a relationship with you but will end up having a relationship with someone else. Well her/his reason or excuse to you seemed fuckingly unfit when she/he entered that relationship with that other guy/girl! What happened to her/his excuse “I still haven’t moved on yet from ____ (name)” bullshit?! Haha!

I’ve learned that you can’t please everybody. There’ll always be someone out there who despises you even in a simple way.

I’ve learned that being on the “rebound” is the worst case a guy could possibly be in. Listening to her every sob story and you couldn’t even express your true emotions at that moment coz you just want to comfort her; it’s such a pain in the ass. Then she’ll still end up having strong feelings for her ex and your left with nothing but “if only” or “what if” leaving you helpless.

I’ve learned that what we’ve been looking for was already in front of us all along. Happiness, love, trust, friendship, they’re all present. We may just be too blind to see or too numb to feel.

I’ve learned that success is the best revenge. It’s better to hear from your enemy or someone who made you feel down, that you did better and improved.

I’ve learned that sometimes we should try the road less traveled by. We should try other paths to get on our usual destination. Who knows, there might be something on that different path.

I’ve learned that the Highschool days would really haunt you even after many years. It’s like Highschool molded you to be who you are right now. Highschool also formed the ever-bonding friendships with your barkada. This was also the times where the “firsts” came; first love, first kiss, first heartbreak, first “experience”, the many firsts of everything.

I’ve learned that there will always be someone who is in more need than myself. If I’m saddened by the fact that I don’t have luxurious material things, what more for the people who don’t have eyes to see the beauty of all those material things.

I’ve learned that satisfaction is inexistent. We aspire for a lot that we fail to appreciate the things or the moments that lies on front of us.

I’ve learned that some of the people that you hold dearly in your heart will eventually have their own different path than yours. Goodbye is inevitable.

I’ve learned that there really are a lot of fish in the sea. It’s just up to you whether you swim for them or stay put on your own land of hopeless commitment. If you know what I mean.

I’ve learned that a tear is worth dropping for in the moments that it calls for.

I’ve learned that sometimes the unsolicited advice that you give to your friends doesn’t work when you’re in their own position. You don’t buy what you sell. You don’t practice what you preach.

I’ve learned that principles are just guidelines that really breaks up in times of desperation or depression.

I’ve learned that there are a lot of ways to express what you feel and to also release your emotional disturbances. Writing shit like these or even singing in the shower every once in a while eases a little.

I’ve learned that our parents really have a lot to say about life but they just have rare chances to speak with us heart to heart.

I’ve learned that time really travels by so swiftly. The once little kids that we were are now fully-grown individuals and has much harder responsibilities.

I’ve learned that sex is not just a three-letter word. Sex is the shortest word that ultimately sums up a lot of things. Some relationships break down due to this. Some couples experiment and even pass thru the boundaries. Sex is the most misunderstood thing that the world really takes for granted.

I’ve learned that being a virgin is not shameful and worth being proud of. Controlling my raging hormones and saving it up for the one that I’ll exchange vows with in front of the altar is one commitment that I’m faithfully exercising.

I’ve learned that someday your calling will come and it’s up to you whether you accept it or not.

I’ve learned that the ‘90s is worth missing. The bands, the music, the cartoons, the numerous TV series, the movies (even the bold ones! It controlled the box-office back then. Hehe!), all of them are worth taking a look back at.

I’ve learned that maturity helps us interact with other people on a more open-minded manner. Sexual matters are not a Taboo anymore when you’re an adult. Opening up about it even helps to refrain from the mistakes.

OTHER trivial THINGS that I’ve learned this year:

I’ve also learned that there is another route from school in Pedro Gil for me to get home.

I’ve also learned that I could also go with my Brader and take a couple of rides from their place for me to get home.

I’ve learned that walking in Luneta is not that “uncool” as everyone may think of. The sight there is nice to look at. I think, the walk that I had in Luneta this year is just the 2nd time I’ve been there my entire life.

I’ve also learned from “someone” that when a girl visits you at your house, it means nothing! (ayyt?!)

I’ve also learned that some things shared with someone are just OVERWHELMING and meaningless. (hmmm.)

I’ve also learned that watching from the bleachers section of the Big Dome is not that bad! Some other things are really bad that day. Like for example, the weather. (hahaha!)

I’ve also learned that it’s way cool to cross the Nagtahan Bridge by walking! ASTIG! I did it twice! And it was both around 10 p.m!

I’ve also learned that there are many “SAWis” in the class! A toast to all you guys n’ gals!

I’ve also learned that when I have problems with someone, I have problems with the entire group. (Dami nila eh! Nasa CR lagi. Dun nag-uubos ng oras sa harap ng salamin! Hehe!)

I’ve also learned that I miss my soulmate, my Peyton. She’s too busy. Just can’t disturb her…Good luck to everyone!

I’ve also learned that there are some people who patiently reads my writings and I thank them for that. THANK YOU. Mabuhay kayo! Sorry, di ako kasing-galing ni XEREX eh.

NOTE: WALANG PAKIALAMAN. WALANG KOKONTRA. WALANG
MAGAWI KASI.